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They say that after a woman gives birth, she eventually forgets how painful the whole process is that she wouldn’t mind getting pregnant again and going through all the pain that she once went through.

I can’t help but see a resemblance in the way we feel about falling in and out of love. Love isn’t so much about the way the other person makes us feel. It should be way beyond that, for love is a choice, to stick through the pain and perils of finally giving away your heart entirely to someone who stole and eventually owned it.

I can say for sure how easily I find it to forget all the pain love has caused me because like magic, love has a way to make us feel so many emotions at once. Like magic, love can make us believe in the impossible. Like magic, love can overwhelm us and catch us off guard. Love can lift us up even when it wears us out over and over. Because love is magical and it gives us that giddy feeling in our stomach, we easily want more of it despite all the complications and pain that come with it.

In the past 5 years, I’ve lost count of the times I’ve gotten hurt or hurt the one I love, but we easily fought through all the hard times and negativity because we are just so persistent and determined like that. We just wouldn’t give up, at least not completely. We both are each other’s first loves and I know how first loves are messy and beautiful at the same time. I also know that despite those, we both love each other so much that we just wouldn’t let each other go, no matter how many times we’ve broken up; but sometimes, holding on can do more damage than letting go ever can.

I don’t even know if I’m doing it right, but I love you. I’ve found a best friend and a partner in you which no one can ever replace in my heart.

I hate the fact that our love seems so right, yet everything else feels so wrong. I hate that the we were given but a fleeting chance to love. I hate that you were given to me, yet will only be taken away. I hate that those that once cheered us on, now only want us apart. I hate that I now have to put away this ring with your name on it. I hate how the once sweet words we have for each other became bitter and sad. I hate that we always talked about marriage and having our own family, yet here we are back to being strangers again.I hate that our paths met, but never to remain intertwined like how I always dreamed of.

But just so you know, I don’t hate you. I don’t hate the fact that the whole universe seem to conspire to break us apart. I don’t even hate the fact that there is now a story of more woe than of Romeo and Juliet’s, and that is ours.

I love you and I hope that when you look at the stars at night, you see the world not as a traitor that robbed you of happiness. I wish that the brightly peppered sky rather remind you of the hope and happiness He promised to come. I hope that when I see you again, we both are rid of all the pain, have completely forgiven each other and eager and brave to love again (whether each other or strangers we have yet to meet), much like the women who fear not the pain of bringing another child into this curious, little world.

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Nobody said it was easy. Missing you already.

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The Sunday Currently, Volume 13

I haven’t written anything in a long time, to think that so much has happened and I have all the time in the world to do so.
So first things first, TSC! I missed doing this! For the past weeks, every single time I remember doing it, it’s either too early or too late, so I better do this before Sunday ends again!
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R E A D I N G  an article my brother sent me a few days ago, “24 Super Fun Things to Do in Tokyo on Your Very First Visit” because we’re all so excited and obviously, it would be our first time to go to Japaaaan!
W R I T I N G  nothing except this blog entry. Ok, maybe I should really finish filling out my Visa application form.
L I S T E N I N G  to really upbeat songs: JT’s “Can’t Stop the Feeling” and Meghan Trainor’s “Me Too” and Coldplay’s “Up & Up” on repeat, coz I need to! These have been making me feel good the past days!
T H I N K I N G  of jogging in the morning starting tomorrow, while I’m still unemployed.
S M E L L I N G  cigarette smoke
W I S H I N G  I could have been more honest
W E A R I N G  the smallest pieces of clothing I own because it’s still toooo hooooot in PINAS!
L O V I N G  the music video of Coldplay’s “Up & Up”. It reminds me so much of digital collage art!!
W A N T I N G  to join the digital collage exhibit! I have got to make new collages right now before it’s too late!
N E E D I N G  some peace of mind!
F E E L I N G  regretful, but I need to move on.